What is parenting? I’m sure its not easy. Once a child is born the parents live changes. From the start is when they make decisions, and should always be involved in their kids lives. As they get older the parents should make less decisions and give more of an advice to their children. Although there’s other stressing things in the parents live, they should never put their kids aside. After all their parents behavior, style, and attitude influences their children. Some parents are over protective and strict and have low sensitivity. Moderate parents are affectionit towards their children and are reasonable with them. Permissive parents allow their children to set their own standers. Uninvolved parents just don’t care. These are styles of parenting that can affect the development of a child during their childhood, teen years, and as an adult. Not everything is always the parents fault, its also a kids responsibility to what they do. Some kids are easy, positive and ready to experience something new. Some kids are difficult and have intense reactions. Other kids who are slow to warm up and react negative at a start of a situation will gradually become more positive at the end of the experience. These are some tantrums that children face as they are growing. If parents would just be more kick back and set limits and rely on consequences for their children to learn from making their own mistakes, and explain why rules are important and why they must be followed, and reasoned with them and consider their point of view even if they disagree. No matter what they should be firm, with kindness, love and have high standards to encourage their children to be independent and prepared to face the world.
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